And what was I thinking? there is lots of physicial things that I need to be doing but the ambition is excaping me this day, and in the process of procrastination here I sit computer at my fingertips trying with all my might (or mind) toget a straight line of thought going/coming whichever. The minor continious distractions not helping in the least!
Friends that entered into marriage and have been blessed with a child are contemplating a break up, both have been married before and are in their 30's he has children but this is her first. And at 3 mo. post partium I personally think that they should slow down and rethink their situation. Marriage and divorce are too easy to get. I know this personally, sometimes they are necessary, but for most cases they are not. God put the need to procreate in us and sometimes we need to follow our instincts to fulfill the need, but with that need filled what other thing would call us to pick living single only to search for another to fill the other side of the bed. When you are divorced you admit that you have had other physicial relationships, so in essence are no longer pure. And by marrying a divorced person you admit that that person is not pure of body either. So to think that infidelity in the relationship is reason for divorce is being naive.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.(Hebrews 13:4)
And thats the deal God will judge this! As long as you are doing your part to maintain your part of the bargain leave the rest to God!
